The compressor that you have on hand will work fine, if it doesn’t leak. Capacity-wise, I have followed the advice previously posted. The first thing to do, is to make sure that your system can hold a vacuum. The seal on that compressor might need to be replaced, and a vacuum test where you pull a vacuum and have it hold overnight or longer is the first step. Once you get that done, then you can put in a charge of R-12. You should see results after about 1-1/2 to 2 pounds of refrigerant. For R-12, the site glass is a valuable way to indicate how your system's performing.
Air conditioning register temperature is also another helpful metric to use for determining the best performance, but it usually follows how full or clear the site glass is as well.
regarding the data plate and it’s stating 3.6 pounds of refrigerant, whether it was from a Monaco, 300, imperial, fury or anything else except a station wagon with rear air, 3+ pounds will be damn close. Remember, or 12 is very forgiving and you got a lot of slop in the amount of charge to get to the best performance point.
I installed in R-12 aftermarket system (all 65-66 Mustangs came with an under dash evaporator) in my 1965 Mustang and it calls for 1.75 pounds of R-12. After putting in one 12 ounce can of R-12, it started performing well and I continued to charge it until the site glass cleared up. At that point, the register temperature was near freezing (32 degrees F).
Another teaching point regarding R-134a is indeed that refrigerant is better measured by high and low side pressures, driven by the outside air temperature. I have used the chart below for Mel, the 1995 Buick Roadmaster recently and nailed the charge using it.
go and do the work and report back!