I won’t run away or leave a forum because I don’t like what is going on there politically or how the site is being run. I speak my mind in the proper way (some say I am a complainer or want something for nothing, but neither are true) and adjust accordingly. Sometimes it’s easy to just ignore the content of others, and sometimes me staying requires extra effort on my part, but I move forward, realizing that I can’t control the situation.
The serenity prayer often helps me. Sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly, but the next right thing always materializes, if I am mindful and work for it.