I suspect that we ALL want everything about our cars to be as "top notch" as possible, nothing wrong with that. BUT in our quest for such, sometimes the results are less than stellar, by observation. I have also observed that many automatic transmission people have their own little tricks and such to "make things better", nothing wrong with that, usually, as long as they will be warrantying their work. Which helped determine my "OEM quality or better" parts for rebuild orientation.
In our modern world, many of the older shop owners who did great work (and some not quite so great) have gone into retirement or another place. Which NOW means that the good shops that are left, are usually a ways from us. Just the way things are. For more modern vehicles, the 'mass rebuilders" and a few others have upped their capacity to do "crate things", a more generic product of sorts, usually geared toward high-performance than normal drivers. As you get somebody else's interpretation of what you really want, rather than just a normal OEM-level rebuild (which has already lasted a long time, usually). So rebuilding what you have, possibly with some HD frictions for better longevity, CAN be a better way to do things.
Enjoy!
CBODY67