The reason it "bangs over bumps" is that the springs are too weak AND the shocks have seen better days, too. Not just the "air assist" portion of them.
The factory "HD" springs will firm things up back there and help with the "rear seat passengers", too. If you desire to keep the air shocks, then you'll just need 20psi in them for normal use, while still having the HD shock for the rest of the time. The ride should not be harsh or too stiff, if things are done "right".
Also get some new shackle bushings, too. I suspect the springs will have the front bushings already in them, but verify when ordering.
Thanks for the replies,
CBODY67