I agree that it's changed from what it was in the beginning. The only time I really feel like I got ripped off was way back in the beginning and it was partially my fault. He didn't list the shipping cost and then must have been disappointed in what the auction brought. Something like $35 what was pictured was a nice 70 Challenger headlight bucket what I received more than a month later was aluminum scrap and he charged over $40 to ship it. So I don't buy anything that doesn't have the shipping spelled out in the listing and I check the feedback.
I bought a fair number of our Christmas presents off ebay this year and felt like I did pretty good. I bought one item for about 1/3 of what it was for sale elsewhere and it shipped free.
Selling is where you get the short end of the stick. Unless you wait for them to run some kind of promotion to sellers.