No I only have iron heads....but I would not change my methods for aluminum either.
I actually watched the video and I have never used dry graphite...but sounds like it might do the job....worth a try! As for having the manifold flanges machined that is up to you, I have never once done this on all the old manifolds I have used, and my RH HP manifold on the wagon was so rusted and pitted on that surface I thought for sure it would fail....not a single leak in all the years and miles I have put on the motor.