I have seen diesel-engine torsionals break a transmission, but it always happened to a component that was loaded when torque converter lockup clutches were applied, and the damper springs on that clutch were not effective to dampen the torsionals. And when it happened it was always traced to an engine that had injector issues, making the engine more torsionally active. FWIW, it always happened to a Brand X, 26ft box truck, with a particular engine, whose transmisison calibration was limited to 5 out of 6 speeds. 6th gear was locked out due to a resonance frequency in the engine's rear adapter housing, which would get excited in 6th gear at highway speeds. So the engine adapter housing was saved, but a particular planetary carrier in the transmission was unknowingly placed next in line to take the hit.
95% of our old cars still have an AT with out a lockup converter - and the fluid in the converter will absorb any torsionals from the engine.
So - the flexplate in your car should last forever if it's installed properly. There's no need to put one in to act as a fuse.