I think that you may be a bit confused on some things and could use some additional guidance.
Your alternator is rated at 55 amps. In my opinion going with an alternator with a 55 amp output is when you need to start consider fire safety. Your car's wiring was not designed for more than 45 amps if it is an a/c car. Suggest you make sure your wires are in good shape and not brittle. Upgraded wiring in the charge circuit and an alternator gauge bypass are 2 things that you should consider.
Alternator amperage and voltage are 2 very different things. Voltage regulators DO have a maximum amperage rating. I sell these voltage regulators but am currently out of stock and there is a 2 week back order on them but they are available from others and I highly recommend these:
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The manufacturer of this voltage regulator has a 65 amp maximum rating so voltage regulators do have maximum amperage ratings so using one with a 30 or 35 amp rating is likely your problem. If your alternator amperage output exceeds the voltage regulators rating you will "fry" the voltage regulator and when you do that, they typically end up either completely failing or putting out a constant 15 - 16 volts, which is too much and results in an overcharge situation.
A 12-volt system is really a 13.8 volt system. A fully charged battery will be at or around 13.8 volts and that is where you want your voltage at the battery to be with the battery fully charged, the engine running and high draw accessories and headlamps off.
My guess is that your voltage regulator is bad and that you need to have one with a rating that is compatible with your alternator.
Keep in mind that Chrysler routed the charging circuit from the voltage regulator through the bulkhead connector and then through the alternator gauge and then to the battery. Therefore all those connections and wiring need to be in good shape and again, you need to keep in mind that you are putting more amps through the wiring and electrical connectors than they were designed for. I won't run more than a 50 amp alternator with factory wiring that is 50+ years old but that's me and I have heard of far too many electrical fires that were caused by alternator gauge failures.
If you are running an electronic ignition system you MUST use an electronic/solid state voltage regulator. The mechanical points type voltage regulators tend to have a short lifespan with electronic ignition systems.
Sorry for the long post. I hope this helps.